that 20 year-old Jeremy Roloff of TLC's Little Big World is kinda twinky like. Though the show paints him sort of directionless. It also appears he's NOT ready to join the real world, and live outside the bubble his parents and the show has created. I'm not saying his Christian upbringing has been bad, but I know some (including wives of family members) who don't know how the real world works due to the sheltered world they grew up in.
Jeremy needs to be ready. And his parents need to push him more. At the end of the day, yes its cool to hang out at the farm or the Diary Queen and have teenage Twilight fan girls swoon over you, but it's not a reason to live.